“Accepted in the Beloved” (Ephesians 1:6) 
                   
If you’re saved, you’re accepted by God because you’re  in Christ. Christ is the Beloved, and because He is loved of the Father, you  are granted all the privileges of a child of God and a bride of Christ. 
                You’re forgiven, justified…“just as if I’d never  sinned!” “He has delivered us  from the power of darkness and conveyed us into the kingdom of the Son of  His love, in whom we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness  of sins” (Colossians 1:13–14). 
                Some Christians measure their acceptance in the Beloved  based on feelings. They rightly expect to have a sense of “righteousness and  peace and joy in the Holy Spirit” (Romans 14:17). The problem with this, is  feelings are never an accurate way of determining God’s favor. They do force  the saint to examine himself, which is a good thing.  
                When something bad happens, the saint naturally wonders  why God allowed the bad thing to happen, and unless he goes to God in prayer  and counters these feelings by laying open his heart before God, he’ll naturally  lower his shield of faith, and fiery darts can strike him (Ephesians 6:16). 
                Bad feelings are usually associated with  something the saint fears. Fear is a symptom of not trusting God. You must immediately  go to God with your fear. Prayer is a continuous means of grace for those who do  it, which is why we’re told to “pray without ceasing” (1 Thessalonians 5:17). If  you don’t know how to pray, just say, “Lord, I fear this thing. Based on your  Word, I know everything that happens to me, You allow for Your purpose. I  cooperate with Your purpose and thank you for whatever You’re doing. Please give  me wisdom to pray for the people and things you want me to pray for”. 
God will usually have you  pray for the people that are associated with the bad feelings. Every time the bad  feeling returns, counter with prayer.
   
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